The Life and Times of a father with 3 beautiful kids, The eldest having Severe Cerebral Palsy living in Northern Australia.
Sunday, February 08, 2009
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Rain Rain Go Away

Tuesday, February 03, 2009
Saturday, January 31, 2009
The Dam is Full, The Dam is Full!!
Here is Jack and Will at the bottom of the spillway.
Kate always has a cheeky smile for the camera..
The grate in front of us is out over the flowing water and the spray and wind shoot straight up, this is where we get soaked..
We had to leave Kate's chair up the top and I carried her down the ten or so staircases AND THEN back up again...Phew!
Time to think!
Yesterday (Fri) we were supposed to head up to Cairns for the week end. Donna has the week end off - and that doesn't happen very often - so we were staying at this nice resort with a big pool and playground for the kids. It was a last minute thing but I was really excited about getting out if this house.
The rain has been depressing me and even though it was probably raining in Cairns also I was happy to lay about in a hotel room and watch movies or go for a swim with the kids in the pool and maybe even do a trip to sugar-world.
But it was not to be, and for some reason I feel like there was a reason we should not go. I don't know what it is - but.....
This business with the young child being thrown off the bridge in Melbourne has really knocked me around a bit also, I keep picturing it in my head - Dad driving the car in solid traffic, Kids screaming in he back, Dad under lots of stress, Dad then snaps!!! I picture the child looking at its Dad has he carries her to the side thinking he won't do it he's my dad and then looking back up at Dad while she's falling to earth thinking.... he's supposed to be protecting me....what Did I do??....Why doesn't he love me????
I know as parents we all been in the situation where you are driving and the kids are going ballistic in the back but where is that line that changes you to do something as irrational and deadly as the above story.
How close has any of us been to that line. Maybe not to the extreme as the above but to at least not paying attention to what is really important - The deadly weapon you are driving - not who took who's toy or who's turn is it to pick the movie.
A friend on mine was driving home the other day from picking his kids up from school and came across a fatal motorcycle accident where the rider was an older guy - maybe had kids maybe not but no doubt had a family somewhere and his (my friend) kids were in the car while he was trying to save this guy. What a terrible thing to happen.
Sorry about the rant but it makes you think.....
What really is Important to Us ...Huh!!!
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
First day of school!
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Kate Talking!!!
Here is the video that we have sent away for apply for MASS (Medical Aid Subsidy Scheme) funding for some of the cost of Kate's Liberator 14.
Please enjoy!
Thursday, January 15, 2009
It All Arrives!
Kate's Liberator 14 arrived for trial.

It's an upgrade of the communication device that she is already using and we have it for a month.
As you can see from the link above it is a very complex voice output communication device and we now have a month to raise the AU$13,000 so Kate can continue using it at school.
It has always been Donna and my goal for Kate to have a new one by the start of school.
Kate's old one has never worked at 100% since it came home one day from her old school rattling like a baby's toy but that is another story....
This one has a MP3 player and runs Windows XP so now everything can be done on the device where as we used to have to connect it up to her laptop for her to use Word etc.
But I think the Mp3 player is what Kate is most excited about...
What also arrived yesterday was the approval for funding for the renovation of our bathroom, We wanted to enclose the laundry, toilet and bathroom into one big room with full wheelchair access etc.
The funding only covers half of the cost so we need to come up with the rest (just over 9 grand).
So it will be interesting where all this money is going to come from?
Oh Well that's the life of a parent with a special needs Kid I suppose.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Getting Sorted
I'm going to get all my pics and video's sorted into albums for 2008......True!
Friday, January 09, 2009
Jack The Bike Rider
"When can I take my training wheels off Dad?"
and I said
"Right Now Mate!"
So we did and here are the results:
I'm So Proud Of Him!!!
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
Summer Days!
Sunday, January 04, 2009
Happy Campers
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Stormy Times
There was a bit of a storm out to the North so I thought I might grab the camera and have a bit of a play with the lightening...
If you look really closely you can see the lightening. (really closely LOL)
Was good fun but the Mozzies got me in the end.
Santa's Radio
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas
Well the day is here and the tree is full, the kids are still asleep and it's already hot as.
Last night was our drive around town to check out all the lights - so as to tire out the kids so they would sleep in a little bit LOL.. seems to have worked.
Hope everyone gets what they want this year..
again Merry Christmas...
Drew
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Happy Birthday Will
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Paluma - again
We nearly didn't make it, we had to take Kate to Hospital on Friday morn with her cyclic vomiting,
Fortunately with our new letter for the ED she was treated straight away in stead of "we'll just observe her for a few hours" and quick treatment (sedation) means only an overnight stint but this time with obliging doctors Kate was home Friday night Yay!!
Anyway..
It was one on those trips – good and bad!!
The venue was great,
the weather was great.
I forgot nearly all the important stuff, (after Kate being in hospital and all)
And the Kids (boys) were atrocious LOL.
I even took them on a big bush walk to try and kill off some energy and they were little angels, as soon as we opened the door to the room they turned in the devil himself.
I’m sure my brother and I were never like that (right Mum?).
Our Lollie Lunch..
Kate being not 100% didn’t help, neither me forgetting the Panadol, Or a syringe for her seizure meds, or food for lunch or…should I go on!
All in all when we arrived home tonight everyone was happy and felt like they had a good time, and that was the main aim.
Donna didn’t even take her phone with her!!!
Where are my Grapes and Palmfronds??